The Lies We Tell
What is a lie? Is it sometimes a matter of perspective and opinion or more than that? What about the lies we tell ourselves and communicate to others? A lie is a mistruth, it’s asserting something to be true, when it’s false. This is done with the purpose of deceiving someone…even if that someone is […]
Acceptance and Surrender
What does acceptance and surrender mean to you? Does it sound like being ok with an awful situation, or accepting abuse and poor treatment? Acceptance, in my mind, means surrendering to the current facts of a situation. Instead of fighting, pulling away, being in denial or rejecting the current state of reality… just acknowledge it. […]
What I Eat Matters??
An area of mental health which in my opinion, is largely ignored or not sufficiently recognized is the connection between mental wellbeing, diet and nutrition. I’m not exactly sure why there is this disconnect, but it’s definitely there. We are not trained in any experience I’ve ever had to help clients with making sure they […]
Managing Stress
Stress is one of those strange things that we all know what it means to some extent just from experience, but what is it really? Does it feel like anxiety, pressure, fear…heaviness? …What is it? Why does it even happen? Stress can become a habit, a way of living, or it can be maybe something […]
The Struggle
It can seem like life is a tough struggle sometimes. We don’t always know why or for what reason, but it can seem hard. The things that used to bring you joy just don’t anymore and it seems like everyday is a new problem to manage or deal with. It may even seem like life […]
Getting Organized
What does getting organized mean to you? Does it mean strict, stringent structure? Or something else? And why does it even matter? Organization in my opinion, in its essence, means creating a balance. It is creating a balance between a sense of structure and timing, and also an openness and flow to living. Organization means […]
May You Feel Peaceful and Content
May today there be peace within. May you trust that you are exactly where you are meant to be. May you not forget the infinite possibilities that are born of faith in yourself and others. May you use the gifts that you have received, and pass on the love that has been given to you. […]
Cultivating Stillness
“Seek out a tree and let it teach you stillness.” -Eckhart Tolle One of the most powerful, but sometimes painful things can be allowing yourself to exist and be in a state of stillness. Sometimes stillness feels peaceful but it can quickly become overwhelming and uncomfortable for many. Like the expression, “the unbearable lightness of […]
Creating Connection
Connection is a key part of happiness in our lives. But what is it really?? Some of the greatest struggles I see for clients are feeling isolated, alone or disconnected. We live in a world where for many they find their connection through social media and digital devices. We spend so much time on screens […]
The Joy of Happiness
“The purpose of our lives is to be happy.” -Dalai LamaIn theory one could say that everything we do is because we think we’ll feel better or be better off for it. Therefore, even destructive behaviors are motivated by a belief that somehow life will be better as a result of those behaviors. But how […]